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Of kisses

 -CÅ«sana- 

Taken from the Koka Shastra

(Indian medieval writings on love) 

The sites prescribed for kisses are the eyes, the neck and cheeks, the gums and within the mouth, the breasts and the space between the breasts.  In Latā the people also have the habit, according to their custom, of giving passionate kisses on the private regions, the region below the navel and the armpits.  

The formal kiss (nimitaka) is that given when a woman is made by force to set her lips to a man’s, but remain looking straight in front of her.  

The suction kiss (sphuritaka) is that in which she makes a bud of her lower lip as if she would take hold of her husband’s lower lip and pull it, but does not pull it.  

The thrusting kiss (ghattitaka) is when she takes her husband’s lips and holds them gently in hers, covers his eyes with her hand and thrusts het tongue a little way into his mouth.  

When the man, from below, takes her chin and shakes her face a little from side to side while each sucks upon the lower lip of the other, it is the wandering kiss (bhrānta).  

The crosswise kiss (tiryak) is a form of this, in which she is kissed in profile from the side.  Both the foregoing are called pressure kisses (piditaka) when the lower lips is held with pressure – the man opens her lips with his tongue, holds her lower lip with two fingers and presses it with his teeth only so hard as to give her pleasure.

When in kissing the man bites the upper lips, this is the upper lip kiss (uttarostha).  When in a kiss given by husband to wife, or wife to husband if he be cleanshaven, both lips of one are taken and pressed between both lips of the other, it is the closed kiss (samputa).  This becomes tonguewrestling.  (jihvāyuddha – marraichignage) when their two tongues meet and struggle with each other.

(as for kisses other than on the mouth), upon any of the prescribed places they can be light, medium, pressing or heavy.  

When the husband comes home late and kisses his wife sleeping, or pretending to sleep, these are the two varieties of the awakening kiss.  

Another manner of kiss is the picture-kiss, given by proxy to a portrait, a mirror or photograph, etc.  this is proper to man or woman and is used to declare new love.  

Embracing a statue or doll as an indication of desire are examples of the transferred kiss (samkranta).     

I dreamt of kissing someone last night.  It was really soft and flirty, rather tiyak.  When I woke up after having kissed this person for what seemed to be a long time, I thought “WTF?” as this person has refused to kiss me before and I don’t really want to kiss them atm.  Thus are the intricacies of my life – I give up on one person and the next person lines up pretty promptly, even if I don’t want them.  I s’pose it’s like that for everyone.  In our own way we are all desparate, whether it be to cling to a relationship or to find a new one.  We all search.  All of us need love.     

So in saying that, I thought, well, if it has to happen, it has to happen.  Apart from $e% and 2am conversation – what’s a relationship good for?  Not much methinks.  Just another attachment I don’t need.  But it would fill in time!!!  But if it’s too much hassle – OUT!  OUT!  OUT!

Wednesday, 3 December 2008

  Dear

Can’t Say

I’m sorry to bring attention to you, but you have really concerned me with your comments.  As you may know, there have been a lot of surreptitious comments left for me and others on this blog.  I welcome mystery, but really I think that it’s going too far now when you try to get my feelings get involved. 

I am sorry if you are a girl and you fancy me, I can’t help that and maybe I did something to encourage that, but to tell you the truth I am heterosexual until drunk, and only drunk may be once every three years.  So there is still a chance, but it is a very slim one.  And I would not be interested in more than a friendly relationship otherwise. 

If you are a guy and say you’re a girl or suggest maybe you are asexual or transgender, you’re strange.  I’m not into that complexity sorry. 

But the whole thing is very strange.  I get told that you are trying to play my game and yet – you don’t even know what that is, trust me.  If you did – you may notice I do not want lovers online – I want them in my house. 

You say I’ve offended you, and yet you never showed me how you may like to be pleased.  Love is forgiving, love is kind, it doesn’t harbour judgement or resentment – yet it rejoices in the truth. 

You try to make me make assumptions about who you are, I thought about it and there was a person who I wanted you to be. And then several people I wanted it to be, who could all be the same person or could be elements of something I like.  Then a multitude of people, because I gave myself enough credit to think that more than just the Lama could love me.  And then, eventually your comments led me to not caring. 

I’m open to a new relationship and it will not hurt me.  I am willing to try at a new things if i'm not already tring in some area.  I’ve waited this long for earthly perfection and that is what I’m going to get.  Sorry if you don’t want to share my perfection, i’ll deal with you in another lifetime, where I actually may be something you really do like.  But, i doubt that too.

Belladonna Princess

Belladonna Princess

Belladonna Princess

unleash the dragon

unleash the dragon

Belladonna Princess

When you do something you should be completely involved in it.  You should devote yourself to it completely –

Shunryu Suzuki-Roshi

 

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Been resting, shopping and cleaning since.

I’m trying to get my mind off things as my personal life is a disaster and I am praying for relief in that area.

I find hanging out washing and cooking to be really good relief.  Sounds really boring but hanging out the washing perfectly straight, without wrinkles is really soothing in the night air.

I’ve been watching TV – neighbours, friends, Britney, and now NCIS.  I am really missing Will & Grace – maybe I have to buy the DVD?

I have switched to war mode.  Seems appropriate.

 

 St Thomas, the great doctor and theologian,

 St Thomas, the great doctor and theologian,

warnsabout the proper use of animals,

lest they appearat the final Judgement against us;

and God himselfwill take vengeance on

all who misuse his creatures…

Prescience

is always a gamble. 

What are the odds? 

Only a pro can tell.

  5/2/1 

My aroma is headed his way.  He is fighting it off.  He doesn’t want it to touch him, affect him.

What will happen?

He will watch his endeavour come to ripeness, the work he has done on me, the fine tuning.

It is time for the universal force to unleash its power.  Spirit is with us on this.

What effect on him will Spirit have?

Spirit will be coming on strong to him, holding him in stillness whilst he is made to feel.

And what will he feel?

That I am not able to retract or deny any force that is coming his way.  Bez will play a role in this.  He will be mind sorting with Bez.

He will be feeling what he can and can’t touch.  Looking @ what he holds; the energies available.  The presence of Bez will be freaky to him. 

Intimidating for anyone but another sorcerer.  It will be quite a test.

What will go on between them?

Hounding in the search.  Dogged in the chase the pursuit.  Expression of intent and interest.  Proof of inseparability.

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I put my yellow hoody on.  It has aftershave all over it.  Did I put it there?  Where did I get it from?  Sometimes I wonder about what I have and haven’t done, these days – and I thought my memory was really good. 

What is this sexy smell?  I’ve never smelt it before – is it somewhere back in the annals of my mind?  Could it be? 

Did you wear my hoody?  Did you spray your aftershave on it or do you smell like that anywayz?  Yum.  I haven’t been digging much aftershave lately, but this is NIIIIICCCCE.  Yeah, um…  sexy.  Fantasy worthy.  MXXXtion material.

Oh you – so mysterious and surreptitious.  It’s very entertaining and drives me wild (and crazy).  You should kiss me though (while I’m conscious) because you don’t know what you’re missing (or do you?).

I was numbed, stupefied  

So rare, so special, it came…  

Too young, too inexperienced and too stupid  

To handle my exquisite butterfly  

Trying to hold onto it  

But damaging the perfection  

Of an incarnation of natural beauty  

Grasping at it, fluttering away  

Wanting to keep my find-  

Realising to keep it trapped  

Was to ruin its existence  

Quashing its essence  

And obliterating its free nature  

Therefore rendering it useless…

Now I remember that

Butterfly

  With absolute clarity 

In minute detail

  That nothing

will ever replace 

Illusionary to some

But made real in my heart & in my mind

And be

prepared –

If,

 by chance,

it

flies my way.

I’m driving home from work and there is a really slow car in front of me. 

I want to get home and get to the grill so I try to get around it, then I end up in front of it at the next set of lights. 

It’s a really cute guy and he’s looking really relaxed.  He’s got his arm across the front seat and I picture him with his arm around me, in the car, on the way home from work. 

I ask him in my mind what he is thinking and he moves his lips, maybe to reply or just to talk to himself. 

The lights change. 

I start going slow in front of him, he smiles and is still relaxed.  We drive for ten minutes before I am game to put my indicator on… and so does he. 

I drive really slow down a backstreet, knowing what’s ahead. 

He follows. 

I indicate to stop although I nearly am, and pull off to the left hand side of the road. 

He follows and stops.

 I get out of the car and walk swiftly to the alley way. 

He does the same. 

I slow down as I am walking at the beginning of the alley and he puts his hand on my shoulder when he catches up. 

I turn and say “you want this?  Well XXX me”

He grabs my XXX and kisses me passionately, no words. 

He rips open my blouse and kisses my XXX I’m barely able to keep my balance in my 4” heels, but he pulls up my skirt and sees I have no XXX on, so rubs my waxed XXX. 

With his other hand he gets his XXX out of his XXX and it is XXX and XXX. 

He feels with his XXX where my XXX is and XXX roughly, though he holds me to keep my balance. 

We’re a perfect fit and we make noisy XXX in the alley way for 24 minutes before a dog starts barking. 

I’m over – the fantasy is done and I’m ready to go home to leftover friend rice and a grill.  “I better go” 

“Sure” 

“Umm… it was nice meeting you” 

“Oh… Fred is the name” 

“Hi Fred” 

He reaches into his backpocket (a little too late huh) gets out a business card and says in a salesman voice “Call me” 

“Sure” 

“Yeah…” 

“Okay… um… I’m going to go now” 

“Bye!” He backs into the alley like a deranged mental patient 

“By the way, Fred?” 

“Yeah?” Smiles, you could see him waiting for compliment on his sexual technique. 

“You’re a bad driver!” I run and never look back...